Thursday, December 3, 2009

Why did she blush.......................?

we and my friend (girl) are taking a class together, and participation is a big component of the class. we both hate participating. ne way when the prof asked a question, and when i answered, her face went really really red. i participated again, and the same thing happened. when she participated, she wasnt blushing. why did she blush when i said something, but not when she did?


Why did she blush.......................?
um, i think it's all in your head...Why did she blush.......................?
If we all had to read into common, everyday behaviors searching for the slightest hints that someone was attracted to us... yeah, there wouldn't be over 6 BILLION people on the planet. That didn't happen because of extremely subtle + drawn out mating behavior. No, humans are more along the lines of.. boy likes girl, girl likes boy, they start to consistently flirt almost immediately (not ';possible'; flirting, overt flirtation) and it very quickly (within days or weeks) progresses to a relationship.





I mean, ask ANY couple how they met or knew the other person liked them. You'll never hear anyone say something like, ';she blushed when I answered a question in class, so I figured out that she was sending me hidden signals that she liked me.';





When you start to try to analyze motivations behind those types of actions, the only things you can come up with are what you yourself are thinking, not what the other person is thinking.. because the other person wasn't thinking at all!





So, just don't read into behavior. Take it at face value. If someone's face is red at such random times, it doesn't mean they might like you.. it just means their face is red. The most likely reasons are things like allergies, fear that she (another person who doesn't like participating) might be called on next, the room temperature, her clothing, whatever. Hidden attraction is near the bottom of the list.





Pay very close attention to when you start to analyze such little things and stop yourself. That's a horrible habit and makes it look like you're desperate.
I think you're reading too much into it. It may have been a coincidence or your own self-fulfilling prophecy.
she was probably thinking about u and likes u :D
maybe she likes you. or she thinks you sounded funny when you said it haha. or maybe she knows you were wrong? maybeeee...
she wants to do you

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